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Old Guys Can Still Have Glory Days

stevetrophy_200.jpgAge 51, and still winning athletic trophies. Yay me.

Played in a table tennis tournament in Indianapolis today. I have a rating of 1081 with the US Table Tennis Association. I entered the Under 1250 and under 1450 categories, and ended up winning 7 of 8 matches. Altogether, a good day for me. I actually won the Under 1250 category, and brought home a nice trophy. Had to beat up on one youngster while his parents watched.

Last summer, in cleaning out the basement, I threw away all my old tennis trophies. Didn’t see the point in keeping them. What am I going to do with this table tennis trophy? Should I set it on my keyboard tomorrow at church?

My only loss came in the Under 1450, to an Asian middle-schooler who skunked me, 3-0. This kid was small– probably still needed to use a car seat. I’m a better player and higher rated, but he snuck up on me. As it was, I ended up in a three-way tie in our initial four-person round-robin, beating the other two guys handily. But one of them beat the Asian kid 3-0, and that broke the tie. That guy moved on instead of me. Bummer.

But hey–I still took home a trophy. Mom said she was proud of me.

Four players from our Fort Wayne club participated. Sean Fitzgerald won the Under 1850 group without losing a game. So our club did pretty well.

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A Fellow American Citizen

One of Pam’s tax clients is a young mother who immigrated from South America. She married an American guy, and they have two kids. Nice family. They are among Pam’s tax clients, and came for an appointment one afternoon this week.

Earlier that day, this woman had become an American citizen. She was beaming, so proud. Puts things in perspective, for those of us who tend to take our American citizenship for granted.

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A Few Thoughts About Apples (Not the Computer)

pacificrose_200.jpgI grew up loving Golden Delicious apples. Our family preferred the Delicious family, whether Red or Golden. Jonathans also had a following in the Dennie clan, but always secondary to Delicious. I personally have always preferred Golden.

In recent years, my preferred apple has become the Fuji. I like the consistency, the taste, and the juiciness.

But now along comes the Pacific Rose apple, which Scott’s has had for the past two weeks. Sweet, juicy, a pinkish-red hue–absolutely splendid. The best apple I’ve ever had. And evidently, they are becoming popular.

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The Roots of My Piano Playing

This morning we sang the hymn “Stand Up for Jesus.” That hymn takes me back to the summer after my freshman year of high school and to a 76-year-old Aussie named Gordon Hooker. Hooker taught piano at Biola University, and played piano at the Church of the Open Door in Los Angeles. He also taught me.

I took 3.5 years of traditional piano lessons in Pennsylvania, but when we moved to Arizona, I went two years without a piano teacher. Well, actually there was Mrs. Van L, from whom I took lessons for six weeks. She started me on the Blue Danube Waltz, and each week, because I would misplay something, she reassigned it. Finally, on the last week, I played it flawlessly. When I finished, she said, “Let’s do it one more week, just in case you ever need to play it for a recital.” I never went back.

Dad was taking courses at Pepperdine and Biola that summer, renting a converted garage from a Biola professor, whose name I remember as Mrs. McGahey. Something like that. Dad wanted me to take up lessons again, and inquired about it with Mrs. McGahey, who steered him to Gordon Hooker. And so, I ended up flying to LA for two weeks.

Hooker was amazing. I had four lessons from him over those two weeks. He started me on “What a Friend We Have in Jesus,” teaching me to incorporate his chording style. He threw some theory at me, stuff which no doubt stuck with college students but didn’t work well with me. But somehow, he got his style through to me. I would practice up to eight hours a day; as soon as I sat down at Mrs. McGahey’s piano, my back would ache.

I got “What a Friend” down, and then we worked on “Stand Up for Jesus,” which used his style in a very different manner. There was a third song, which might have been “Have Thine Own Way, Lord,” but I’m not sure. Mainly, I recall the other two songs.

Two weeks, four lessons. And nearly everything I play is based on what Gordon Hooker taught me. Playing with a band, I go away from chording most of the time, but when I need a full sound, I pull out Hooker’s techniques and let ‘er rip.

That’s what I did today, with “Stand Up for Jesus.” Thanks, Dr. Hooker, for your patience with a high schooler. And thanks, Dad, for not giving up on making a pianist out of me. Playing the piano gives me more joy than anything else I do in church.

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How Can People do This?

Yesterday I wrote about the horrors of factory farming. The images from the videos I watched haunted me all day today. I’ve watched such videos before–there are lots of them on the internet–but have never been bothered at such a deep place in my soul. The cows bellowing in pain, as these gentle creatures are practically tortured by the type of people who would have felt right at home running Auschwitz. The pigs stuck in their stalls, unable to turn around, kept there for months on end with nothing to do but eat. And they go insane. Pigs are as smart as dogs. Imagine confining a yellow lab to one of those metal pens, stuck facing forward, no fresh air, no exercise, nothing. Just stand there and go insane. This is what happens to put meat on our tables. Yeah, it bothered me all day.

This isn’t about hunting–I have no problems with that. It’s not about raising livestock on family farms. The issue, for me, is factory farming, these complexes where all human decency is sacrificed in the name of commercial efficiency.

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What Happens to Unused Gift Cards?

I always assumed that stores and restaurants just pocketed the money when gift cards went unused. You know, like that $5 Starbucks card you got for Christmas but misplaced, probably amidst a bunch of wrapping paper. It’s estimated that of the nearly $100 billion in plastic gift cards issued in 2007 (half of it in November and December), nearly $8 billion will go unused.

But a Businessweek article told what happens in half of the states: unused gift cards are subject to unclaimed-property laws. Shoulda known the government would want a cut. The state must wait 2-5 years to collect, but they’re patient.

I’ve got an Applebees gift card in my wallet. Started at $25, and I’ve got $1.67 left. If I lose that card, it’s just unclaimed property, and in a few years, Applebees will need to write the State of Indiana a check for at least part of that $1.67. Interesting.

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My Hessian Heritage

Learned something interesting about my heritage today. We’ve known that on my Mom’s side (the Welkers), we are German and Irish. Some of Mom’s cousins, doing geneology research, discovered that the German part goes back to a Hessian mercenary who fought for the British during the American Revolution, but deserted and settled in southern Ohio. A window into my heritage.

Pam’s heritage include the British Tarletons. Major Banastre Tarleton, the son of a slave trader, was a British officer in the Revolution who fought in the Carolinas. In the movie “The Patriot,” the ruthless Colonel Tavington (Mel Gibson’s counterpart) is based on Tarleton, who was every bit as ruthless as portrayed. So Pam and I both have Revolutionary War roots, and on the British side in both cases. But I doubt that Major Tarleton would have approved of a Hessian deserter.

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Martin Luther King: “Jesus Wasn’t Playing.”

The worship team, as a special, did the song “Get Together,” from the 1960s, as a way to celebrate the legacy of Martin Luther King, Jr. While the band played, a series of photos from King’s life and from the civil rights movement appeared on the screen behind us. Last night, as I searched the internet for appropriate photos, I came across several of King’s speeches, and I was impressed with what I read.

One sermon is called “Loving Your Enemies.” King preached it in 1957 at a Baptist church in Montgomery, Ala. It’s quite a sermon. He quotes the verses from Matthew 5: “Ye have heard that it has been said, “Thou shall love thy neighbor, and hate thine enemy.” But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them that despitefully use you; that ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven.”

Then he says the following:‚Ä®

Now let me hasten to say that Jesus was very serious when he gave this command; he wasn’t playing. He realized that it’s hard to love your enemies. He realized that it’s difficult to love those persons who seek to defeat you, those persons who say evil things about you. He realized that it was painfully hard, pressingly hard. But he wasn’t playing. And we cannot dismiss this passage as just another example of Oriental hyperbole, just a sort of exaggeration to get over the point. This is a basic philosophy of all that we hear coming from the lips of our Master. Because Jesus wasn’t playing; because he was serious. We have the Christian and moral responsibility to seek to discover the meaning of these words, and to discover how we can live out this command, and why we should live by this command.

What would happen if we actually lived by this? If we took it as seriously as King took it? What are the implications for us Manifest Destiny Americans? “Jesus wasn’t playing,” King said. And we know from Jesus’ life that he, indeed, lived by this–as did King. So for us to take this seriously, what does it require of us as a nation, and as citizens of the world’s dominant nation?

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Death of Pam’s Dad, Chuck Wilkin

Chuck WilkinMy father-in-law, Chuck Wilkin, passed away just after midnight on Friday, December 14. He was 65 years old. 

Chuck drove himself to the emergency room of Lutheran Hospital  on Friday, December 7, where a CAT scan revealed a tear in his heart. He was rushed into surgery, and underwent an eight-hour operation that lasted until 12:30 that night. Though the operation went very well, Chuck never woke up. He remained on a ventilator and other artificial support for the next six days. 

Early Thursday afternoon, December 13, the surgeon met with the family. A brain scan revealed little or no higher brain activity. The kidneys had shut down, blood pressure was extremely low, and there were other complications. Difficult decisions were made. Chuck finally passed away very peacefully at 12:45 am on Friday. 

The funeral will be held in Fort Wayne, Ind., at the following times:

Sunday, December 16: Viewing 3-8 pm at D.O. McComb & Sons funeral home at 8325 Covington Road in southwest Fort Wayne.

Monday, December 17: Viewing 10-11 am at Anthony Wayne Church of God, 6012 South Bend Drive, Fort Wayne (260-432-3342). The funeral service will be held there at 11 am. Burial will follow the service at the Covington Memorial Gardens cemetery. Don Dennie, the father-in-law of Pam Dennie, will conduct the funeral. The children have determined to keep the funeral casual in dress. 

Chuck served in the US Army from 1965-1967, and spent his career working for International Harvester (later renamed Navistar) in Fort Wayne, Chicago, and Milwaukee. He retired from Navistar in 1993. For seven years he lived in Asheville, N.C., and in 2000 moved to a condo in Fort Wayne. 

Chuck is survived by three children and four siblings:

  • Pam Dennie (daughter) lives with her husband, Steve, in Fort Wayne, Ind.
  • Jim Mize (son) lives with his wife, Kelly, and four children–Spencer, Kelsey, Trapper, and Levi– near South Whitley, Ind.
  • Jodie Kelly (daughter) lives with her two children, Austin and Logan, in Fort Wayne, Ind.
  • Dick Wilkin (brother) and his wife, Barb, live in Findlay, Ohio.
  • Jeanne Morgan (sister) and her husband, Joe, live in Van Wert, Ohio.
  • Dave Wilkin (brother) and his wife, Elaine, live in Huntington, Ind.
  • Carol Penhorwood (sister) and her husband, Marty, live in Evansville, Ind.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that any gifts or memorials be sent to the USO (United Service Organizations) or the Eugene and Marilyn Glick Eye Institute at the Indiana University School of Medicine (Chuck was losing his eyesight).

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I Choke Again

Yesterday I skipped church to play in the Highland Table Tennis Tournament. Highland is just a few miles from the Illinois border, in the greater Chicago area. They had about 30 tables set up in a fieldhouse.

My rating in the US Table Tennis Association is 984. I’m actually a 1250 or 1300 player, but you can only increase your rating by beating higher-rated players in sanctioned tournaments. This was my third tournament. My goal yesterday was to knock off at least one high-rated person and get my rating, at least, over 1000. And I failed.

Came close, though. I went down to the wire with a 1300+ player and a 1250 player. We play three out of five games (11-point games). Both matches ended up going five games, and we were tied at 10 in the final game. And in both, I lost. So close.

In the end, I lost all five of my matches against higher-rated players, and one my only match against a lower-rated player (a junior-aged Asian boy, my last match of the day, whom I beat up on without conscience). My rating will stay the same. Bummer. Hopefully that can change in May at the big South Bend tournament.

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