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Humility, Credit, and Blame

A very interesting post on what I’ve discovered is a very interesting website: Swerve, by Craig Groeschel, pastor of the highly innovative Lifechurch.tv. Groeschel is writing about humility. He says it is dangerous to not only take all the credit when something goes well, but also dangerous to take the blame when things don’t go well.

For example, when a ministry struggles, some totally blame themselves: “I must not be doing a good job. If I were, then this would grow and thrive.” If we blame ourselves for the hard times, we’ll likely take credit for the successes, too.

That’s a fascinating thought, particularly in a church setting. When things don’t go well, we tend to castigate ourselves for dropping the ball–not working hard enough, not praying enough, not whatever enough. When things do go successfully, we say in humility, “It’s all God. He deserves the credit.” And yet, are we actually thinking but not saying, “Man, we sure pulled that off well! We thought it out, we put in the effort. We accomplished!” Deep down.

I’m certainly not one to avoid self credit. Just being honest.

How does this work theologically? Can we give God the credit whether something bombs or triumphs? We certainly do deserve the blame for failures. At the same time, we may deserve all the credit for the success–because we pretty much pulled it off in our own strength, without wrestling with God’s desires and praying. Heavens, during my lifetime in the church, I’m sure I’ve done many things for God’s glory without seeking his help.

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Excellence is Over-Rated

“Excellence is over-rated,” the speaker at MinistryCOM said.

My generation, the baby boomers, is mightily smitten with excellence. We need to give our best to God. We wear bluejeans to church, but everything we experience there‚Äîthe music, the message, the multimedia, the publications‚Äîmust be top quality. If it’s not, we complain about the affect poor quality will have on visitors, when really, we just demand excellence for our own pleasure.

At MinistryCOM, the worship team from People’s Church there in Nashville opened the sessions. They were great. I sat there basking in those remarkable worship experiences–the superb leader, the tightness of the music–everything. When Pam and I went on vacation in October, we spent one Sunday at People’s Church, hearing the team on a regular Sunday. Superb again. Likewise at Quest Church in Lexington. I thrilled at being part of such high quality worship experiences, and have no criticism to level at anybody.

My attitude was: enjoy it while you can. Because that’s not what I’m called to on a week-to-week basis. My calling is to a church of 120 people, many of them poor, uneducated, culturally untrained. We can’t pull off excellence. The worship team was pretty good for many years, but now we lack a strong worship leader and good singers. I know that musically-savvy may declare us woesomely insufficient. But hey–we are what we’ve got. We’re the willing, and we do our best. Meanwhile, at large churches across Fort Wayne, musicians and singers much more capable than we are go unused, because they aren’t needed. Or because their own abilities, though far beyond those of us meager musicians at Anchor, fall short of the “excellence” their own churches demand.

Daniel Schantz wrote an amazing article on the ChristanStandard.com website called “Recovering from Excellence.” He says that the quest for excellence can be:

  • Elitist. Average people need not apply. Average buildings are unworthy.
  • Expensive. Excellence costs money. I’ve said for a long time that churches “buy” excellence in the form of music ministers and other professionals. “Nowhere did Jesus emphasize having fine things as the mark of superiority,” Schantz writes. He notes that Jesus rode a fishing trawler across the Sea of Galilee, not a yacht.
  • Exhausting. Schantz says people who demand excellence are just perfectionists, and “Perfection is a disorder.”

Sometimes people accustomed to excellence take a condescending attitude toward those of us who must “settle” for what they view as mediocrity. We, on the other hand, view them as uppity, or as as insubstantial fluff. Stereotypoes.

But what about excellence? Should we at Anchor strive for excellence? Should that be a goal for us, and for the other small churches who make up 90% of my denomination? Because though every small church has at least some quality people who could “make it” in a large church (for instance, my wife would make an incredible treasurer), in the end, we just can’t compete. We lack the personnel, we lack the resources.

I’ll come back to this subject with comments on Schantz’s “Alternatives to Excellence.”

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Megachurch Architecture

Slate magazine has a fascinating slideshow of megachurch architecture, including good commentary. You’ll find photos from Lakewood Church (Joel Osteen’s stomping ground), Willow Creek, the Crystal Cathedral (which is the only one which inspires awe), and others. Including the 21,000-seat Mormon conference center in Salt Lake City, the largest religious assembly place in the country. Really interesting stuff.

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The Convenient “Christian” Life


Since my brother Rick and his family saw fit to flee to Florida around Christmastime, we held our family Christmas on New Year’s Day. When we got together with Pam’s family the previous week, I made a vegetable soup for the first time, and it turned out great. I repeated the vegetable soup, and added a successful attempt at my first crockpotable cheese dip. I’m getting adventurous.

My niece, Paula, told me that she and Tom (right) are planning to become foster parents (something in which Paula has had an interest for many years). They live in Convoy, Ohio; Tom is an electrician, and Paula manages a Christian bookstore in Van Wert. Paula valued my opinion about the idea, and that made me feel good.

Having taken in Allen and Carolyn and Connor for a year, I suppose, gave my views some credibility. I told her I thought it was a great way to make a huge impact on some kids’ lives. But I said it would definitely change their lives. Gone is privacy. Gone is a lot of freedom and spontaneity. Gone is…self-centeredness?

But the Christian life isn’t meant to be convenient. If your life is lived in such a way that you don’t have to be bothered by stuff, that things don’t get in your way, that you don’t have extra demands on your time and money, that you don’t need to be unduly troubled by other people’s troubles, that your discretionary time and money is at your own beck and call, that you can do what you want when you want–well, then, your life is very convenient. Congratulations, it must feel nice.

But Jesus talks about having no place to lay your head and all kinds of other unsavory demands of being a disciple. Your life, as a Christian, is not supposed to be convenient.

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Spiritual Gift Scores, Vs. Doing it All

I try to be a champion for small churches. This doesn’t mean I’m anti-Big Church. Sure, I have my issues with them, but I’m also fascinated and thrilled by what some megachurches are doing–Granger, Quest, Willow Creek, Seacoast, Lifechurch, and many more. And yet…small churches, despite their own “issues,” deserve more respect than they get.

Keith Dury’s column last week was called “Seven Advantages of Starting Out in a Small Church.” He tries to encourage his ministerial students at Indiana Wesleyan, most of whom come from large churches, to consider beginning their ministry in a small church. One of his points was “Small churches give you a chance to do everything.”

In one year at a small church you’ll get to do 25 times the things you’ll get to do on a large church staff. Weddings, baptisms, funerals, hospital visitation, budgeting, preaching, prayer meetings, leading board meetings, and a hundred other things are normal for a year’s work in a small church. On a large church staff you may serve ten years before you get to do 90% of a minister’s ordinary work.

In a later point, Drury emphasizes that small churches let you preach, whereas if you’re on staff at a church of 1000, you may rarely (if ever) get the chance to preach. (And yet you want to be called a “preacher”?)

The same issues apply to laypersons. In large churches, you might take spiritual gifts tests and then get slotted into roles consistent with your test scores. If your test-determined gift is Hospitality, then you become a greeter. I really really despise that, for several reasons.

For one, your “gifts” will vary, depending on the test you take. I normally score high in Teaching, Administration, and Giving. But in a recent online test, Music, Writing, Hospitality, and Giving were my high scores. And in another, my high gifts were Giving, Hospitality, Missionary, and Music. Way too many questions are based on what you currently do or have done. If I attended a large church, my piano playing wouldn’t be of sufficient calibre and would go unused and unappreciated. But I use it all the time in a small church, and thus, Music emerges as a key gift. It has nothing, in my view, to do with any actual divinely-imparted gift.

Additionally: why limit your Christian service to one or two areas (your areas of giftedness)? As a layperson in a small (120 persons) church, I’m able to do some of everything. I operate in the areas of many of the gifts, regardless of whether those are “spiritual gifts.” I give, I show hospitality, I teach, I lead, I evangelize, I encourage, I show faith, I serve, I show mercy. I even preach occasionally.

When a church need arises, my involvement never depends on a stupid test score. If I feel God wants me involved, I do it. Whether or not I’m any good at it. How is that theologically wrong?

In a large church, I could do only a few things. And I wouldn’t be able to do the thing that gives me the most joy (play the keyboard). But in a small church, there are no restrictions. I can do it all, and I’m severely needed. I like that.

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A Humble View of The Gathering

I love this quote from a Wittenburg Door Interview with Rob Bell, pastor of Mars Hill church in Michigan.

We say, “This isn’t the church, this is a church service. It’s just an hour where we have some teaching, some singing and you’ll hear about things in the community.” If there are 43 “one anothers” in the New Testament‚Äîserve one another, carry one another’s burden’s, confess to one another‚Äîyou can only do a couple of those in a church service. Until you have a community that you are journeying with, please don’t say you are a part of this church. You just come to a gathering.

Wow, isn’t that true. Our church services are just “a gathering.”

Who is it that I’m journeying with? Well, there’s my wife, Pam. I’m sure our joint ministry takes in a good number of those “one anothers.” (I spent a good deal of time trying to figure out how to word that sentence without eliciting smirks from people with dirty minds; if you smirked, then I obviously under-estimated your depravity.) The worship team at Anchor is the group I’m closest to, the people I’m most likely to open up with. So perhaps our Thursday night practice is more “church” than what happens on Sunday morning.

Anyway, we all need to not think too highly of what happens at the Sunday Morning Big Show, and to recognize that what happens in people’s lives the rest of the week is what really counts. Of course, we all know that, so unlike most of my posts, I’m not delivering any Grand New Insight.

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Discomfort in Foreign Pews

What is most important to a first-time visitor to your church? David Zimmerman, writing on Church Marketing Sucks, says, “First-time visitors care most about not embarrassing themselves.” He then gives some examples of what a visitor might fear:

  • How they are dressed. Too casual, or too dressed-up?
  • Will their kids acts up and make a scene?
  • Will they get confused and stand up at the wrong time?
  • When the offering is taken, will they feel pressured to give?

Zimmerman mentions how some churches ask visitors to stand. I haven’t seen that since college, when a UB church here in Huntington had visitors stand and introduce themselves (for the record, it didn’t make me uncomfortable then, but would now). He also mentions attending a church that reversed it, asking the regulars to stand and the visitors to remain seated. He then found himself “surrounded by towering members in this intimidating church, each hanging over me as they offered me an obligatory welcome and handshake.” Yeah, that would make me claustrophobic.

Here are some other things that can cause a visitor some anxiety or awkwardness.

  • As you enter the church, someone shakes your hand and states a boilerplate welcome, and then goes on to the next person. You’re left standing by yourself, feeling conspicuous and wondering, “Where do I go now?” Contrast that with a greeter who sticks with you, shows you around, and genuinely takes an interest in you.
  • Uh oh, they’re doing communion. What’s the procedure? Do I need to get out of my pew and go somewhere? Can visitors even take communion here or do you need to be a member? Do I drink and eat as soon as I get the elements, or do I wait? I need to watch everyone closely to make sure I don’t screw it up.
  • Standing around by yourself, waiting for the service to star. Nobody comes up to speak to you, even though it’s obvious you’re a visitor. You feel sooo conspicuous.
  • As a lifelong church attender, I know that people stake out regular pews. I’m afraid of sitting in someone else’s “personal” place. At a UB church some years ago, an older couple gave me a bothered look, because I apparently took “their” pew. Hey, I’m sorry.
  • If the church has a greeting time during the service, this can be a nice thing. But it can also be terribly awkward if you’re a visitor and people still ignore you. Or if they give you a quick “Nice to have you” welcome, and then turn to someone else–a regular, someone they know–and begin talking about how their week went.

At any event, I’m always hyper-conscious of how I’m dressed. Am I over-dressed, or under-dressed? I need to get over that, but at age 50, it’s pretty ingrained and I’m not sure my apparent low sense of self can conquer this persistent insecurity.

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Make a Joyful Grammatical Noise

Is anyone else bothered by the last line of Amazing Grace, “We’ve no less days to sing God’s praise/than when we first begun”? It should be either “than when we first began,” or “than when we had first begun,” which sounds silly. Are we a bunch of musical lemmings, automatically singing bad grammar just because the song’s been hymnalized and is therefore considered holy writ?

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MinistryCOM Notes, Day 1: Dawn Nicole Baldwin

Dawn Nicole Baldwin is CEO of AspireOne, which helps churches (mostly very large ones) with branding and web strategy. She’s a real authority on branding, particularly as it relates to the church world. She’s tightly associated with Willow Creek. Here are some tidbits from her afternoon session on branding.

  • Ask, “What do we, as a church, want to be known for?” If we’re not intentional about defining who we are, others will do it for us.
  • “Brand experience” includes many ways people interact with you: word of mouth, your website, mailers, publications, your logo, and much more. The brand is not just the logo.
  • Brand strategy: ask these three questions: Who are you serving? What are your unique strengths? How do you reach people with impact.
  • When ministry leaders say, “We need a brochure,”…do they really? I face that at the denominational level. Everyone wants a brochure, and I don’t think they’re all that valuable.
  • Blanding: trying to be all things to all people. You water all your uniquenesses down.
  • She doesn’t like churches giving different brands to a bunch of church ministries. She doesn’t like having different URLs for the various ministries. Prefers having everything under the single brand of the church and the church website.
  • Identify your biggest fans (brand advocates). In churches, your church’s biggest fans are often new Christians.
  • Sometimes the senior pastor is such a presence that he is the brand. Go to the website for Houston’s Lakewood Church. You’ll see Joel Osteen plastered everywhere. You wonder whether the website is for the church or a commercial for his books.
  • Seacoast Church is a multi-site church with 11 campuses, one of which is five hours from water. Did the name “Seacoast” fit them? They decided that their brand transcended geography.
  • She gave away some gifts. One was to the person who had been in his/her communications role the longest. A gal sitting in front of me said “16 years,” and nobody could top that. So she got a free book. After the workshop, I told her, “I’ve been doing my job for 26 years.” But since the focus here is local church communications, I didn’t inject myself.
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Notes from MinistryCOM Day 1: Terry Storch

  • We’re meeting at The People’s Church, a megachurch in a community on the outskirts of Nashville, on the south side. You could call it a suburban church, I suppose.
  • The MC is Evan McBroom, who heads his own communications consulting firm in Indianapolis called Fishhook. He said we communications people are like sled dogs–someone’s always whipping us from behind, and the view ahead isn’t so great, either.
  • The church’s worship team led us in both the morning and afternoon keynote sessions. Very good group, superb sound. I need to look up the song “Mighty to Save,” so we can do it at Anchor. “My Savior, he can move the mountains….”
  • The keyboard player nodded his head throughout most of the singing. He tried to find things to do with his left hand (which, in a band, isn’t really needed)–grab the side of the keyboard, adjust the microphone…anything to keep it away from the keyboard. That’s tough for a keyboard guy.
  • Terry Storch, the Digerati Pastor at Lifechurch.tv in Oklahoma, gave the morning keynote. LifeChurch is a highly innovative, multi-site church which has the coolest church homepage. They have their own church in Second Life, a virtual reality world. At least one person became a Christian through it. Storch is very highly regarded by Christian communications people.
  • Storch talked about how the communication revolution has affected the church. The Guttenberg press brought the printed word, radio brought the spoke word, TV brought the visual word. The internet, at least what’s called Web 2.0, is all about participation. Churches focus on one-way communications, while the web is about multi-faceted communication.
  • He said “Church 1.0” is all about service times. “If you want to know what we do, come to the church at our times.” But with “Church 2.0,” people want your content anything they want it, not just when your church doors are open.
  • “Churches are al about a building.” If it doesn’t happen in the church building, it’s not “church.” He said he led more people to Christ at Starbucks than inside the walls of his church. He mentioned the idea of the “Omnipresent Church.” The church is about people, and it happens constantly, not just at designated times.
  • Rather than go “out” to do outreach, we should be “in” communities like MySpace and Facebook. We can make relationships online, and then turn them into physical outreach by meeting those people in person. He said his wife met two such persons already.
  • We used the phrase “Each one reach one.” But that’s addition. We now need to think, “Each one invites everyone.”
  • 1.2 billion people in the world (out of 6.6 billion) are connected to the internet today.
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