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What Do We Really Really Care About?

Back in early December, a friend and I discussed the question, “What does the United Brethren Church really care about?” This was after we learned that the constituency had definitely voted down the idea of combining our denomination into the Missionary Church. We felt that as a denomination, we needed to decide what it was we really really really cared about. What it was we would emphasize, put our energy behind.

We settled on a couple of things that we do, indeed, care about. We treasure our focus on biblical absolutes, while remaining open on theological and behavioral practices on which the Bible doesn’t clearly take a stand. As our documents say, “The church’s historic position has been to stand firm on biblical absolutes, allow freedom where the Bible allows freedom, and maintain unity when disagreements arise.” I’m a huge supporter of that statement. It very much defines who I am. In the debate over joining the Missionary Church, this principle was regularly emphasized (with some ridiculous insinuations that the Missionary Church is legalistic). But is that statement enough identity to justify our existance?

We’re also proud of our heritage. We haven’t done anything particularly noteworthy since 1889, when we split off from the main body, but our heritage prior to that point is pretty impressive. That, too, is something we care about. But is that enough?

I’ve been pondering this further the past few weeks, as I’ve been redesigning the denominational website. It’s due for an upgrade. In designing the homepage, I dearly wanted a tagline which would sum up the essense of who we are as United Brethren in Christ. “A church committed to….” But we have no such statement, nothing which says, “This is what we care about.” The Missionary Church has a great statement, which is prominent on their website: “An evangelical denomination committed to church planting and world missions.” Their actions prove that that’s more than just a statement. They truly care about church planting and world missions, and excel in carrying out those agendas.

We believe in church planting and missions; we know they are important and we make efforts. But I can’t say those are things we deeply care about, because you just can’t find the evidence. Sure, there are individuals and whole churches that can correctly claim to care deeply about church planting and/or missions. But we don’t as a denomination. And I can’t point to anything else. Evangelism? Growing healthy churches? Meaningful worship? More things we merely think are important–not things that in any way define us.

So, I resigned myself to designing the site without any catch-phrase or slogan.

Next Monday and Tuesday, our National Board will hold a special meeting to begin addressing the question, “Where do we go from here?” To answer that question, we need to decide, “What do we really really really care about?” Not, “What are we interested in or believe is important?”, but, “What do we want to be known for? What do we want to excel at? And what are we willing to put our sustained attention behind?”

I’m anxious to see how the delegates tackle such questions.

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The Body Torn

Since just after Christmas, I’ve been dealing with the impending divorce of two of my best friends in the church. They’ve been there since the church started in 1998, and we’ve spent a lot of time together. I think the world of both of them. But things happen in this fallen world. They’re getting a divorce. He’ll stay in the church, she’ll make her way elsewhere. He’ll be okay; he’s surrounded by supportive friends. I’m worried about her.

This is tough stuff. We’ve had other divorces in the church, but not with a prominent couple who have influenced many others in the congregation.

This morning, we announced it to the congregation. People hadn’t yet started whispering, “Is something happening with…?” But it soon would, so we needed to go public. Before the gossip machine started up. He read a statement to the congregation; Pastor Tim worked it into his sermon beautifully. My friend wanted to get this out in the open, so he could stop hedging and making excuses and avoiding situations where it might come up. It was a simple statement, devoid of the understandable anger which I have seen in force. He did well, and I’m proud of him. It was a necessary thing for our congregation to hear.

But what will happen with his ex? I desperately hope, and pray, that sometime in the future she finds herself once again among a loving and accepting group of Christians, able to use her substantial gifts as part of a healthy local church body. But I know I won’t be involved in seeing that happen. I’ll have to entrust her to God, confident that God will find the right place to get her plugged back in. This is a good person. Restoration can happen, and she has experienced far too much of God’s presence in her life to abandon it all. She’ll find her way back, eventually. But much territory needs to be covered before restoration–and healing–can occur. It’s territory that needs to be covered. I’d like to help her walk that journey, but I can’t. I know God will find just the right person, the right group of Christians, the right church. It’ll happen.

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Random Act of Christmas Kindness

We had a big surprise at work on Monday, and it was a very cool thing. Mark Beers and Wes Kuntzman, two United Brethren ministers (Decatur and Monroe, Ind.), delivered a big box of goodies to each us at the United Brethren Headquarters. That’s ten boxes of goodies. LOTS of goodies. We’re talkin’ a full turkey, a half-ham, a sack of potatoes, two litres of pop, a box of Stovetop Stuffing, a jar of gravy, a bunch of oranges (very sweet!), a bag of M&Ms, and probably some other stuff I can’t remember offhand.

These care packages actually came courtesy of the United Brethren church in Daytona, Florida, where Chuck McKeown is the pastor. Wes Kuntzman is from down there, and that’s probably the connection. Daytona is really passionate about doing “random acts of kindness,” and this was just an example. They probably figured maybe we were feeling somewhat blue as a result of the October UB election (and we are), so this was a wonderful bit of affirmation. They’ve been doing creative acts of kindness for people in their community for years–merchants, civil servants, neighbors, anyone. Reach out in love without expecting anything in return.

Mark and Wes had fun delivering the goodies (Wes wore a little Santa hat), and had two helpers (college students, I think). We’re talking big, heavy boxes. Pam and I are going to do the ham tonight; I’m not sure when we’ll get around to the turkey. We didn’t need any of this. But I’m still shaking my head at the thoughtfulness of the people in Daytona. Thanks, Pastor Chuck!

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The Denomination of “No”

The local media in Huntington and Fort Wayne have said it, and now the Associated Press has relayed the word around the country: the United Brethren church has said it won’t unite with the Missionary Church. I just saw the AP story in the Cleveland Plain Dealer. Our groups seemed like a near-perfect match–in doctrinal and behavioral standards, geographic location, mindset, types of churches, etc. The MCs, with much more happening in their midst than is happening in the UB church, were nonetheless willing to view us as equals. But the UBs, rather resoundingly, turned down the idea. Sorry, but no. We’re not interested.

Did this bring applause in heaven? Did the angels rejoice that the UBs decided to remain a separate entity? Did God breathe a sigh of relief, saying, “Now I can accomplish my special purpose for those 25,000 UB people”?

I wish the AP story could have told about this denomination, the one with the rich heritage in the 1700s and 1800s, that gave itself up for something better. It would have been a great example to the larger body of Christ. Other denominations would have looked at what the United Brethren did, found it admirable, and pondered issues of unity and partnership and self-sacrifice and Kingdom-building. “If the UBs could give themselves up in the interests of Christian unity and greater effectiveness, why can’t we?” In that way, we would have made a distinctive contribution to the larger Church.

But we rejected that in favor of…well, we don’t know what. But apparently, from what some people are saying, God has something special in mind for us. My view is that we said “No!” to the “special” thing, and he’s frustrated that we now expect him to provide an alternative. But I don’t really know. What I do know, or feel confident about, is that saying “No!” didn’t prompt any partying in heaven, and it’s not drawing the admiration of anyone who reads the AP story. And that continues to sadden me.

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Let the Purging Begin

In my continued bummed-out state, I don’t exactly draw encouragement from the UBHope discussion forum. Lately, posts there have revolved around removing from leadership, and banning from future leadership, persons who were in favor of the referendum to join the Missionary Church. I, quite obviously, am one target of that. So are the Bishop and the ELT members.

Taking it further, as one person seems to, would exclude the pastors of 11 of the 12 largest UB churches (maybe all 12–I’m not sure where one of the pastors stood). The ministers with the strongest track record in knowing how to grow a church tended to be in favor of the referendum. So, who will next hold the reigns of the denomination? Will it be proven church-builders? I think not. They wanted to do away with the denomination. They lost. As it is written online, “How will those who were lead advocates of the ‘dissolution’ movement and who made substantive negative comment(s) about the denomination, regain the trust of those who had, and continue to have, respect and regard for the denomination?…Can the laity re-establish trust with its current denominational leadership?”

One person wrote, “I don’t think you have to fear the current leaders relinquishing power. I think you have to worry about a dearth of people ready to take over leadership.” That was countered by someone who responded, “The ‘dearth of people ready to take over leadership’ will be hard challenged to do worse that the current leadership.” Thanks for the affirmation.

This brings to the forefront something which is new to the UB church, and which has bothered me for several months now: the severe criticism–even mockery–of persons in leadership. I’ve not seen this before in my days in the UB church (all 48 years of them). It’s a door that has been opened, and which the UBHope mailings over the course of the past six months have exacerbated. It’s open season on the leadership.

I doubt that this level of criticism has existed in our midst since the days of Milton Wright (who, arguably, set the pattern and then led a division in the church in 1889). We justify Milton Wright’s actions and attitude by pointing out that the church he departed from is now the United Methodist Church, and aren’t we glad we aren’t part of the UMC? But as I have read about Milton Wright, I have noticed a spirit about him which bothers me greatly. And I think that spirit has been revived during the past year.

The door is open–it’s okay to severely criticize our church leadership, to second-guess their decisions, to even ridicule them (as we’ve seen in emails and anecdotes which have made their way to the HQ offices). And that will make it extremely difficult for a new bishop and new leadership groups to lead. This, I’m afraid, will be part of the lasting legacy of UBHope.

Okay, I sound embittered. Actually, it’s just frustration. Where will God lead us in the future? That’s the question on everyone’s mind.

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Fear Factor and Other Stuff

My nephew, Curt, went to Chicago to audition for Fear Factor back in June. He works for a credit union, so he look pretty normal during the day. But for the audition, he spiked his hair and otherwise donned the full punk “uniform.” And the Fear Factor people loved it. He got a call in September (I think it was) saying they wanted to use him on the show. Earlier this afternoon, my Mom called to say he had sent in a 45-page contract (in which he basically admitted that he could get killed, maimed, or otherwise severely abused).

So, it looks like a Dennie will be doing the reality-show thing. And if he makes $50,000 in the process, I guess we won’t be so quick to denounce the bain of reality TV.

Curt is very active at Fellowship Missionary Church here in Fort Wayne. He’s been involved in some very cutting edge evangelistic outreaches to the city’s rave and punk community, and finds himself meeting to discuss his faith with people who are into witchcraft, homosexuality, and much more. I don’t know of anything like it in the UB church.

The Missionary Church, like the UB church, has a strong traditional element. But at the same time, they have an exciting cutting edge element. That’s one of the things the UB church lacks.

I was quoted in an article about the non-joining of the UB church and the Missionary Church that appeared in yesterday’s Fort Wayne Journal-Gazette. Today, I talked to reporters from both the Fort Wayne News-Sentinel (the afternoon paper, which Pam and I take) and the Huntington Herald-Press. UBHope people were severely critical of the article which the News-Sentinel did last spring, and in particular of quotes provided by the bishop. The link on the UBHope website calls it, “When Interviews Go Bad,” with a description mockingly saying, “Who said any publicity is good publicity?” That irks me. I was heavily involved in helping the reporter with that article, and felt the writer did a conscientious job. I don’t know if they’ll get on my case about these articles or not.

After the Huntington Herald-Press did an article about the merger talks last fall, the Bishop received an official letter from the New Hope UB church’s board criticizing us for “allowing” the newspaper to do an article, even though it was public knowledge and we had been debating it actively on a discussion board. News flash: We don’t control the media. When they decide to do a story, all you can do is try to be helpful and make the most of it. If you try to control or censor them, you’re just asking for trouble. But I’ve been extremely pleased with the reporters I’ve worked with.

I was pleased to learn today that a mistake was made in counting votes for national conference delegates in Central Conference. Denny Miller, pastor of Emmanuel Community Church, had been listed as the first alternate (7th highest vote-getter). I was disgusted that, for the third time, he was apparently not elected by the conference as a delegate, even though he pastors the second-largest church in the denomination, has held various denominational leadership positions, and is probably our denomination’s premier, proven church-builder. But, to my joy, it turns out some votes were overlooked, and Denny actually ended up third. Ah, something right for a change!

Pam and I continue our fascination with the TV show “Lost,” which we watched again last night. I guess it won’t be on for several weeks now. They keep dropping little tidbits that you know will be elaborated on at some future date. It’s a great show.

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UB Election Results

Today, we’re announcing the results of the UB elections. Actually, I posted the results on the UB website yesterday, but without fanfare. The referendum intended to unite the United Brethren church with the Missionary Church failed, getting just 43% of the votes of UB members in the United States. I’m crushed. Have been for a week, actually, since I’ve known for that long that it would die.

The strongest opposition came from a group called UBHope, a group which I helped create (inadvertently) by launching a denominational discussion forum. That’s where the UBHope people got acquainted. Stupid, stupid me.

Posting on the web was one of three parts of the plan to announce the results to the UB constituency, which is the responsibility of the bishop. But within hours of the results appearing on the website, UBHope sent an apparently already-prepared email newsletter to its own email list (which is pretty large). So, many UB people will hear the results first not from the Bishop, but from the group which fought so hard to defeat the referendum. It never crossed my mind that they would do that; otherwise, I would have waited to post the results on the web. Again, stupid, stupid, and terribly naive me.

The UBHope newsletter did a lot of preaching about kingdom-building and church growth and etc. The thing is, the churches that are fueling the bulk of the growth in our denomination are, for the most part, led by pastors who favored joining the Missionary Church–our larger churches, and our smaller progressive churches (like Anchor, my own church, which voted 35-0 in favor). And most of the people behind UBHope don’t exactly come from cutting edge churches, though you wouldn’t guess that by reading their progressive-sounding materials.

Oh my, I’m sounding like a very sore, embittered loser. In the grief process, I guess I’m in the Anger stage. Somewhere far out ahead lies Acceptance. I wonder when I’ll arrive there. I’m venting here, on this little blog designed for my own amusement. I think I feel better already.

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Word on the Street

Word on the street is that the referendum on joining the Missionary Church failed. The results from several conferences are floating around, and the Central Conference figures–just 44% in favor–were released on Wednesday and quickly made the rounds. I happen to have all of the results on my computer (except for Northwest Conference, which is counting their votes on Sunday). We’ll probably be able to publish the results on Monday. I’m thinking, anyway.

I’m pretty bummed out. I fear that the United Brethren church will enter a period of “experimentation,” trying this and that and finding nothing that works. I don’t see any good scenarios out there for us as a denomination. This pains me, since I’ve served the denomination my entire working life, and have never attended anything but United Brethren churches. I love this denomination, but fear that some dark, directionless days lay ahead. I feel that a huge, huge opportunity for a bright future has been lost.

Yesterday was the funeral for Fred Bauman, father of my good friend Tim Bauman, one of the guitarists on the worship team. Tim asked four of us on the worship team to be pallbearers. Just shows how much of a “family” we are. Fred and Lena hadn’t attended church for many years, but began about five years ago after Anchor started up (which is when Tim and Alice started attending). Anchor made a difference in Fred’s life, and they were extremely faithful in attending. Whatever happens in the denomination, Anchor will move forward.

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Early Returns on UB Voting

I’ve heard lots of “exit polling” from the October elections in United Brethren churches regarding the referendum on our denomination joining the Missionary Church. Here’s my guess: it’ll pass with a 55-60% yes vote. We’ll know soon enough. Conference boards of tellers are now compiling the results from conference churches, and they’ll be forwarding the results to the Bishop’s office. Maybe in a couple weeks, we’ll know.

Right now, we’re kind of in the eye of the hurricane–things are fairly calm. Have been, pretty much, since local church voting started at the beginning of October. But once the results are announced, things will heat up again, one way or the other. It’s hard to predict what exactly will happen under any scenario. But it’s good to be optimistic.

I remain very excited about the synergies that can happen in bringing our denominations together. It certainly won’t automatically make our churches healthy, and nobody’s claiming that that will happen. But there is a lot we can do together, and the United Brethren church is just too small‚Äîas a group of churches‚Äîto do a lot of things by ourselves. Plus, we’ll be good for the Missionary Church‚Äîa fresh infusion of good churches and seasoned leaders with new energy. And we’ll bring fresh perspectives, as outsiders always do. Like I said, it’s the synergies that really have me cranked.

If it fails, the United Brethren denomination can “keep the church doors” open indefinitely. But I’m concerned about long-term effectiveness. We’ve been on a certain trajectory for over 15 years, a trajectory toward being a group of merely affiliated churches that do less and less cooperatively. I don’t like that trajectory. Some people might prefer that, but I like the idea of being a denomination where churches cooperate to do meaningful things. That’s what I remember from my childhood and early adult years. That’s what I feel we can regain by uniting with the Missionary Church.

Some people argue that this issue is dividing our church. Well, there are certainly differing opinions about whether or not this is a good thing. But as a pastor pointed out to me earlier this week, we’re actually trying to do something that brings applause in heaven‚Äîuniting churches. Where you see dividing, I see uniting. For the sake of more effectively building the Kingdom.

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Early Returns on UB Voting

In October, United Brethren members voted on the issue of uniting our denomination with the Missionary Church. One week into November, we’re hearing scattered results from local church voting. Very little, so far, favors joining the Missionary Church. At this point, I fear that it won’t happen.

This greatly disturbs me. I’m convinced that this is the best future for our denomination, and that only bad times lie ahead otherwise.

I lament the great synergies that won’t happen. I think the Missionary Church would gain greatly by the new energy, perspectives, and ideas that the United Brethren church would bring. They would be much better off with us, and we with them. But separately–well, the Missionary Church will continue moving ahead. But the United Brethren church will gradually go the way of the Primitive Methodist Church and other small denominations, that just aren’t big enough to really do anything.

But maybe things will turn out differently. Early in the day, one week ago, “exit polls” showed Kerry winning, but that turned out wrong. What I’m hearing mostly is from small churches. We’ll see.

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