I spent yesterday in Indianapolis while Pam attended one of her CPA continuing education classes. She gets to sleep while I drive down, and then I kick around at music stores, computer stores, and a wonderful used bookstore in the Castleton area. Before leaving Indy, we eat at Skyline Chili.
As we left Skyline, a fellow probably 55-60 years old approached the car timidly and motioned for me to roll down the window. He was dressed in older clothes and a stained jacket, and wore a cap, but didn’t look unkempt in any way. A respectable appearance.
He quickly told me his story about moving recently from St. Louis, having an accident and breaking his ankle, and several other things going badly. He was also diabetic, and needed a little over $19 to get insulin at Wal-Mart. He said he only had $3 on him. He assured me he didn’t smoke or drink. Could I help him?
As he told me this story, he kept looking down, trying not to make eye contact. He knew I didn’t believe him. The thing is, if I found myself in his position, a proud fellow who had no other options, I would have acted and spoken in exactly the same way he did. It had the ring of truth. But it could just as easily have been a well-practiced act.
When he finished, I looked at Pam and said, “How about it?” Then I pulled a $20 bill from my wallet and gave it to him. He thanked me profusely, shook my hand with a strong grip, and said, “God bless you.” And then we drove away.
I don’t know if I got taken or not. Probably did. But I don’t care. People will tell me I should have taken him to Wal-Mart and purchased the insulin for him, just to make sure how the money is used (and to call any bluff that needs to be called). I’m aware of these principles. Time didn’t allow that.
A Christian should err on the side generosity, not on the side of suspicion, cynicism, and stinginess. I’ve erred like this before, and will again. I feel a lot better about that than telling guys like this, “Sorry, buddy. Look somewhere else.” And even when I do get conned, I think Jesus smiles with satisfaction.
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